I don't want to compete.

So around the time I got engaged a girl I knew from my past also starting planning her wedding. So every few weeks I hear from her asking who I am using for the and that. I am not planning the wedding at this point because as many of you know I am in school over load. Without any contribution or control I feel I have been catapulted into an all out wedding competition. I did not sign up for a TLC show! I will not say yes to the dress. Please go have a mega wedding and point me to the court house.